There were many times I thought about giving up. There were many times I almost did give up. I wasn’t financially stable (even though most 20-year-olds aren’t), I wasn’t happy with my job, and just wasn’t happy with the people around me. Then one day I realized that I had two choices. I could either sit around and complain about the way things were going, or I could get off my bum and do something about it.
What I’m getting at here, is that you have to want to change bad enough to be able to make it happen.